{"id":351730,"date":"2016-04-04T11:02:29","date_gmt":"2016-04-04T16:02:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/content.findlaw-admin.com\/ability-law\/family\/divorce\/checklist-issues-to-discuss-with-your-divorce-attorney.html"},"modified":"2026-01-27T16:35:43","modified_gmt":"2026-01-27T21:35:43","slug":"checklist-issues-to-discuss-with-your-divorce-attorney","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/divorce\/checklist-issues-to-discuss-with-your-divorce-attorney.html","title":{"rendered":"Issues To Discuss With Your Divorce Attorney"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 fl-sectionWithSidebar fl-container fl-flex fl-flex-wrap fl-gap30\">\n<div class=\"fl-page-articles fl-section-main fl-section-main-full-width\"><h1 class=\"fl-no-margin-top\">Issues To Discuss With Your Divorce Attorney<\/h1>\n\n<section class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline\">\n    <div class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline-content\">\n                    By <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/company\/our-team\/lyle-therese-a-hilotin-lee-j-d\/\">Lyle Therese A. Hilotin-Lee, J.D.<\/a> | Legally reviewed by <a\n                href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/company\/our-team\/catherine-hodder-esq\/\">Catherine Hodder, Esq.<\/a>\n                | Last reviewed\n        <time>\n                            January 27, 2026\n                    <\/time>\n    <\/div>\n\n    \n    <details class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline-toggle fl-gutenberg-byline-legally-reviewed\">\n        <summary>\n            <i class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline-icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i>\n            Legally Reviewed\n        <\/summary>\n\n        <div class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline-toggle-content\">\n            <p><em>This article has been written and reviewed for legal accuracy, clarity, and style by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/company\/our-team.html\">FindLaw\u2019s team of legal writers and attorneys<\/a> and in accordance with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/company\/company-history\/editorial-policy.html\">our editorial standards<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n    <\/details>\n\n    <details class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline-toggle fl-gutenberg-byline-fast-checked\">\n        <summary>\n            <i class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline-icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i>\n            Fact-Checked\n        <\/summary>\n\n        <div class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline-toggle-content\">\n            <p><em>The last updated date refers to the last time this article was reviewed by FindLaw or one of our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/company\/our-team\/contributing-authors.html\">contributing authors<\/a>. We make every effort to keep our articles updated. For information regarding a specific legal issue affecting you, please <a href=\"https:\/\/lawyers.findlaw.com\/?fli=bylinelink\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">contact an attorney in your area<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n    <\/details>\n<\/section>\n\n\n    <div class=\"fl-callout-text article-blockquote\">\n        <p>When meeting with a <span data-term-id=\"55428161\">divorce attorney<\/span>, you should ask about <span data-term-id=\"55428183\">property division<\/span>, <span data-term-id=\"55428163\">child custody<\/span>, <span data-term-id=\"55428202\">living arrangements<\/span>, and <span data-term-id=\"55428170\">spousal support<\/span>. A <span data-term-id=\"55428161\">divorce attorney<\/span> helps you navigate issues in contested and <span data-term-id=\"55428186\">uncontested divorces<\/span>.<\/p>\n\n    <\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Divorce involves complex legal and financial decisions affecting your property, children, and future. Preparing for your <span data-term-id=\"55428180\">initial consultation<\/span> with a <span data-term-id=\"55428161\">divorce attorney<\/span> means understanding the key issues to address and gathering relevant documents to protect your rights and interests.<\/p>\n<p>A\u00a0<a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/lawyers.findlaw.com\/divorce\/?fli=dcta\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span data-term-id=\"55428161\">divorce attorney<\/span><\/a> can help reduce your legal and financial stress, advocate for a <span data-term-id=\"55428183\">property division<\/span> that protects your interests, and work out <span data-term-id=\"55428184\">custody arrangements<\/span> that best serve the needs of your children.<\/p>\n<p>In this article, we\u2019ll go over <span data-term-id=\"55428192\">important questions<\/span> you\u2019ll want to discuss when you first meet with an attorney about your <span data-term-id=\"55428166\">divorce case<\/span>. <span data-term-id=\"55428178\">Family law<\/span><span data-term-id=\"55428178\"> attorneys<\/span> who focus on divorce are extremely knowledgeable, and their job is to answer your questions and find the best solution for your circumstances. When you come to your consultation with the <span data-term-id=\"55428190\">right questions<\/span>, you can keep things on track and address all your concerns.<\/p>\n<h2>Issues Relating to Children<\/h2>\n<p>If you have young children, <span data-term-id=\"55428163\">child custody<\/span> considerations will be a major part of your divorce. Ask your attorney what factors your state considers when determining custody and what \u201c<a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/child-custody\/focusing-on-the-best-interests-of-the-child.html\"><span data-term-id=\"55428200\">best interest of the child<\/span><\/a>\u201d means in your situation. They can also explain:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The difference between <a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/child-custody\/legal-custody.html\"><span data-term-id=\"55428198\">legal custody<\/span><\/a> (decision-making authority) and <a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/child-custody\/physical-custody.html\"><span data-term-id=\"55428188\">physical custody<\/span><\/a> (where the child lives)<\/li>\n<li>What <span data-term-id=\"55428184\">custody arrangements<\/span> are realistic in your situation<\/li>\n<li>How <a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/child-custody\/parental-visitation-rights-faq.html\">visitation schedules<\/a> or <span data-term-id=\"55428212\">parenting time<\/span> will work, including holidays and vacations<\/li>\n<li>Whether grandparents might seek visitation rights<\/li>\n<li>How your state calculates <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/child-support\/child-support-basics.html\"><span data-term-id=\"55428165\">child support<\/span><\/a> and what expenses it covers<\/li>\n<li>Who will pay for health insurance, dental insurance, and uninsured medical costs<\/li>\n<li>How you and your spouse will handle college expenses<\/li>\n<li>Who will claim the children as <a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/child-custody\/who-can-claim-the-children-as-dependents-for-tax-purposes.html\">tax dependents<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Whether you need to address issues like religious upbringing in the custody order<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You may have other questions to ask as well.<\/p>\n<h2><strong><span data-term-id=\"55428183\">Property Division<\/span> Issues<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span data-term-id=\"55428173\">Divorce law<\/span> on <a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/divorce\/divorce-property-division-faq.html\"><span data-term-id=\"55428183\">property division<\/span><\/a> varies by state. Ask whether your state follows <a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/divorce\/community-property-overview.html\">community property rules<\/a> (generally equal division) or <a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/divorce\/equitable-distribution.html\">equitable distribution rules<\/a> (fair but not necessarily equal division).<\/p>\n<p>If you are concerned about your home, ask whether you can <a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/divorce\/divorce-who-gets-the-house.html\">stay in the marital home<\/a> and how you&#8217;ll divide the equity. Your attorney can explain several options to address this:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>One spouse can buy out the other&#8217;s interest<\/li>\n<li>You can sell and split the proceeds<\/li>\n<li>One spouse might keep the home while the other receives other assets<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>For other significant assets, discuss:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>How business assets or professional practices will be valued and divided<\/li>\n<li>Whether your state considers professional degrees earned during marriage as marital property<\/li>\n<li>How you&#8217;ll divide retirement accounts (pensions, IRAs, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/employment\/wages-and-benefits\/a-look-at-401-k-plans-for-employees.html#:~:text=A%20401(k)%20is%20an,Department%20of%20Labor%20(DOL).\">401(k) plans<\/a>) and whether you&#8217;ll need a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO)<\/li>\n<li>Your eligibility for your ex-spouse&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/divorce\/divorce-remarriage-and-social-security.html\">Social Security benefits<\/a><\/li>\n<li>How student loan debt and <span data-term-id=\"55428194\">credit card<\/span> balances will be allocated<\/li>\n<li>Whether your state compensates homemakers for their contributions<\/li>\n<li>Concerns about hidden assets<\/li>\n<li>How you&#8217;ll divide stocks, bonds, investment accounts, and other property<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Don\u2019t be afraid to ask your attorney other questions that aren\u2019t listed here.<\/p>\n<h2><span data-term-id=\"55428170\">Spousal Support<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Not every divorce involves <a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/divorce\/spousal-support-alimony-basics.html\"><span data-term-id=\"55428170\">spousal support<\/span><\/a>, also known as <span data-term-id=\"55428171\">alimony<\/span>. When it does, it can have a significant impact on the financial futures of both parties. If you&#8217;re uncertain about <span data-term-id=\"55428170\">spousal support<\/span>, you can ask your attorney:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Whether you could receive <span data-term-id=\"55428170\">spousal support<\/span> or might be obligated to pay it<\/li>\n<li>Whether the length of the marriage affects the amount of <span data-term-id=\"55428170\">spousal support<\/span><\/li>\n<li>Will the court consider factors such as each spouse&#8217;s earning capacity, age, health, and standard of living<\/li>\n<li>If temporary support is available during the <span data-term-id=\"55428174\">divorce proceedings<\/span><\/li>\n<li>How much <span data-term-id=\"55428170\">spousal support<\/span> the court could award and for how long<\/li>\n<li>Are <span data-term-id=\"55428170\">spousal support<\/span> eligibility and duration restricted in your state<\/li>\n<li>Whether you are eligible for continued health care <a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/employment\/wages-and-benefits\/cobra-insurance-rights.html\">coverage through COBRA<\/a>, for how long, and who will pay premiums<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>In\u00a0<a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/codes.findlaw.com\/ca\/family-code\/fam-sect-4320\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">California<\/a>, courts favor rehabilitative support that helps a spouse become financially independent. In contrast,\u00a0<a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/codes.findlaw.com\/tx\/family-code\/fam-sect-8-051\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Texas law<\/a> is much more restrictive, limiting eligibility and duration. Due to these varying rules, it\u2019s a good idea to seek <span data-term-id=\"55428176\">legal advice<\/span> from a <a href=\"https:\/\/lawyers.findlaw.com\/divorce\/?fli=dcta\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span data-term-id=\"55428161\">divorce attorney<\/span> in your state<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>Other Issues<\/h3>\n<p>Depending on your circumstances, you may also need to discuss:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Protective orders if <a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/domestic-violence\/stop-domestic-violence.html\"><span data-term-id=\"55428175\">domestic violence<\/span><\/a> or <a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/child-abuse.html\">child abuse<\/a> is involved<\/li>\n<li>Parental kidnapping concerns (if you worry a parent might violate custody orders)<\/li>\n<li>Legal separation as an alternative to divorce<\/li>\n<li><a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/divorce\/changing-your-name-after-divorce.html\">Changing your name<\/a> after a divorce<\/li>\n<li>Divorce mediation options<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>As mentioned before, you should feel comfortable asking your attorney any questions you have.<\/p>\n<h2><span data-term-id=\"55428169\">Attorney Fees<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>One of the most stressful aspects of divorce is uncertainty about <span data-term-id=\"55428203\">divorce costs<\/span>. During your <span data-term-id=\"55428180\">initial consultation<\/span>, ask about:<\/p>\n<p><strong><span data-term-id=\"55428182\">Fee structure<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span data-term-id=\"55428172\">Hourly rates<\/span> for attorneys and <span data-term-id=\"55428181\">paralegals<\/span><\/li>\n<li>Consultation fees<\/li>\n<li><span data-term-id=\"55428167\">Retainer<\/span> requirements and how they work<\/li>\n<li>What services are included versus billed separately<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong><span data-term-id=\"55428185\">Additional costs<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Court <span data-term-id=\"55428179\">filing fees<\/span> (typically $100-$400+)<\/li>\n<li>Service of process fees<\/li>\n<li>Expert witness fees for property appraisals or custody evaluations<\/li>\n<li>Mediation costs<\/li>\n<li>Administrative expenses like copying and postage<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You might also want to ask whether the court might order one spouse to pay the other&#8217;s <span data-term-id=\"55428169\">attorney fees<\/span>, particularly when there&#8217;s a significant income disparity between spouses.<\/p>\n<h2>Communication and Working Relationship<\/h2>\n<p>Understanding how you&#8217;ll work with your <a href=\"https:\/\/lawyers.findlaw.com\/divorce\/?fli=dcta\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span data-term-id=\"55428164\">divorce lawyer<\/span><\/a> helps prevent frustration and unexpected costs. Ask about:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>How you&#8217;ll communicate (<span data-term-id=\"55428177\">phone calls<\/span>, emails, client portal) and typical response times<\/li>\n<li>What communications are billable and in what increments<\/li>\n<li>Whether brief questions can go to a <span data-term-id=\"55428181\">paralegal<\/span> instead of the attorney<\/li>\n<li>How you can minimize costs (for example, batching multiple questions in one email instead of several calls)<\/li>\n<li>How often you&#8217;ll receive case updates<\/li>\n<li>What decisions require your approval, versus what the attorney can handle<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Clear communication expectations <span data-term-id=\"55428189\">up front<\/span> help you work efficiently with your <a href=\"https:\/\/lawyers.findlaw.com\/divorce\/?fli=dcta\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span data-term-id=\"55428215\">legal assistance<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>Documents To Have Ready<\/h2>\n<p>Assembling key documents before your consultation saves time. Try to gather:<\/p>\n<p><strong><span data-term-id=\"55428199\">Financial records<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span data-term-id=\"55428197\">Tax returns<\/span> for the past three to five years<\/li>\n<li>Proof of current income and <span data-term-id=\"55428209\">pay stubs<\/span><\/li>\n<li>Bank statements<\/li>\n<li>Retirement account statements<\/li>\n<li>Mortgage documents<\/li>\n<li><span data-term-id=\"55428194\">Credit card<\/span> statements<\/li>\n<li>Loan documents<\/li>\n<li>Monthly budget worksheets<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Legal documents<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Prenuptial or postnuptial agreements<\/li>\n<li>Separation agreements<\/li>\n<li>Insurance policies (life, health, homeowner&#8217;s, auto)<\/li>\n<li>Wills<\/li>\n<li>Powers of attorney<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Property information<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Appraisals for valuable items and <a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/divorce\/divorce-taxes-and-your-estate-plan.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\"><span data-term-id=\"55428196\">real estate<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li>Lists of significant personal property<\/li>\n<li>Lists of property owned before marriage or acquired by gift or inheritance<\/li>\n<li>Student loan statements<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If you have something not listed here that you feel is important, bring it. The worst that can happen is that you won\u2019t need it.<\/p>\n<h2>Get Legal Help With Your Divorce<\/h2>\n<p>Divorce involves many <span data-term-id=\"55428210\">essential questions<\/span> that can significantly impact your future financial security and your relationship with your children. A\u00a0<a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/lawyers.findlaw.com\/divorce\/?fli=dcta\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span data-term-id=\"55428161\">divorce attorney<\/span><\/a> will protect your rights and help you secure what you deserve.\u00a0Contact a <a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/lawyers.findlaw.com\/divorce\/?fli=dcta\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">local <\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/lawyers.findlaw.com\/divorce\/?fli=dcta\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span data-term-id=\"55428213\">legal professional<\/span><\/a> who can guide you through the <span data-term-id=\"55428168\">divorce process<\/span>.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"was-this-helpful\">\n    <div\n            class=\"was-this-helpful__question-container\"\n            aria-labelledby=\"was-this-helpful__question\"\n            role=\"group\"\n    >\n        <span\n                id=\"was-this-helpful__question\"\n                class=\"was-this-helpful__question 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