{"id":351741,"date":"2016-04-04T11:02:32","date_gmt":"2016-04-04T16:02:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/content.findlaw-admin.com\/ability-law\/family\/divorce\/divorce-mediation-lawyers-and-divorce-mediation.html"},"modified":"2023-07-13T13:28:11","modified_gmt":"2023-07-13T18:28:11","slug":"divorce-mediation-lawyers-and-divorce-mediation","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/divorce\/divorce-mediation-lawyers-and-divorce-mediation.html","title":{"rendered":"How Lawyers Can Help in Divorce Mediation"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 fl-sectionWithSidebar fl-container fl-flex fl-flex-wrap fl-gap30\">\n    \n    <div class=\"fl-page-articles fl-section-main fl-section-main-full-width\">\n        <h1 class=\"fl-no-margin-top\">How Lawyers Can Help in Divorce Mediation<\/h1>\n<section class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline\">\n    <div class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline-content\">\n                    By <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/company\/our-team\/amy-vandervort-clark-j-d\/\">Amy Vandervort-Clark, J.D.<\/a> | Legally reviewed by <a\n                href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/company\/our-team\/melissa-bender-esq\/\">Melissa Bender, Esq.<\/a>\n                | Last updated\n        <time>\n                            July 13, 2023\n                    <\/time>\n    <\/div>\n\n    \n    <details class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline-toggle fl-gutenberg-byline-legally-reviewed\">\n        <summary>\n            <i class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline-icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i>\n            Legally Reviewed\n        <\/summary>\n\n        <div class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline-toggle-content\">\n            <p><em>This article has been written and reviewed for legal accuracy, clarity, and style by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/company\/our-team.html\">FindLaw\u2019s team of legal writers and attorneys<\/a> and in accordance with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/company\/company-history\/editorial-policy.html\">our editorial standards<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n    <\/details>\n\n    <details class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline-toggle fl-gutenberg-byline-fast-checked\">\n        <summary>\n            <i class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline-icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i>\n            Fact-Checked\n        <\/summary>\n\n        <div class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline-toggle-content\">\n            <p><em>The last updated date refers to the last time this article was reviewed by FindLaw or one of our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/company\/our-team\/contributing-authors.html\">contributing authors<\/a>. We make every effort to keep our articles updated. For information regarding a specific legal issue affecting you, please <a href=\"https:\/\/lawyers.findlaw.com\/?fli=bylinelink\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">contact an attorney in your area<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n    <\/details>\n<\/section>\n<div class=\"fl-key-takeaways fl-mb30\" data-testid=\"fl-key-takeaways\">\n    <div class=\"fl-card-content\">\n        <div class=\"fl-card-body fl-card-bg-teal fl-flex fl-flex-column\">\n                            <h2 class=\"fl-card-title fl-h2 fl-no-margin\">Key Takeaways<\/h2>\n                        <p>Divorce mediation is one method of alternate dispute resolution.&nbsp; Many former couples use mediation to amicably resolve their differences without costly litigation. A divorce attorney can help you prepare for mediation.<\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>The use of mediation in divorce cases has become more common. If a divorcing couple can resolve matters between themselves with the help of a neutral third party called a mediator, they can save legal fees on divorce litigation. They can avoid the nastiness of a litigated divorce with their former partner.<\/p>\r\n<p>Many states now require divorcing couples to try court-ordered mediation before taking certain cases to court.<br>\r\n<\/p>\r\n<p>Before attending a mediation session, it&#8217;s crucial to understand your position by asking:<\/p>\r\n<ul>\r\n<li>Is it better to take the matter to court?<\/li>\r\n<li>What should I ask for in mediation?<\/li>\r\n<li>What&#8217;s the best negotiation strategy?<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n<p>Individuals entering the mediation process often hire a&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/lawyers.findlaw.com\/family-law\/?fli=dcta\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">family law attorney<\/a>&nbsp;or a mediation attorney to coach them and provide advice. Understanding divorce law and what you are entitled to would be helpful.<\/p>\r\n<h2>What Is Divorce Mediation?<\/h2>\r\n<p>Mediation is a form of&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/corporate.findlaw.com\/litigation-disputes\/adr.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">alternative dispute resolution<\/a>. It is a private and informal way to settle conflicts outside of court. In divorce mediation, an impartial third party, the divorce mediator, helps a couple negotiate a fair&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/divorce\/settlement-agreements-and-court-approval.html\">settlement agreement.<\/a>&nbsp;The issues you address during the mediation process might include the following:<\/p>\r\n<ul>\r\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/divorce\/divorce-property.html\">Property division<\/a><\/li>\r\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/child-custody.html\">Child custody<\/a>&nbsp;and parenting plans<\/li>\r\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/divorce\/alimony.html\">Spousal support<\/a>&nbsp;(alimony)<\/li>\r\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/child-support.html\">Child support<\/a><\/li>\r\n<li>Financial issues, like retirement funds<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n<p>Unlike judges, neutral mediators don&#8217;t determine who gets what or how to divide assets. Instead, a successful mediation will help the divorcing couple reach a fair settlement agreement together.<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/adr\/mediation\/the-mediation-process.html\">Mediation<\/a>&nbsp;occurs in several stages: introduction, information gathering, private meetings with the mediator, negotiation, and a final resolution. It can take many mediation sessions before the parties reach a&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/divorce\/sample-separation-agreement.html\">divorce agreement<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n<p>The agreed-upon details are drafted into a memorandum of understanding (MOU). Once both parties have signed the MOU, it may become binding if filed with the court. This is where it is a good idea to have an attorney on your side to review the document.<\/p>\r\n<p>If the mediation is unsuccessful, a couple can return to the more traditional process in which their lawyers negotiate and litigate on their behalf.<\/p>\r\n<p>Mediation is not appropriate when a divorce is highly contentious, you are fearful of your ex-spouse, or you have experienced&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/domestic-violence.html\">domestic violence<\/a>. Consult an attorney before agreeing to the mediation process.<\/p>\r\n<h2>Do I Need a Lawyer for Divorce Mediation? What&#8217;s a Legal Adviser&#8217;s Role?<\/h2>\r\n<p>While you don&#8217;t need a&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/lawyers.findlaw.com\/divorce\/?fli=dcta\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">divorce lawyer<\/a>&nbsp;in mediation, it can be a good idea to speak to one to know your legal rights.<\/p>\r\n<p>If you underestimate the strength of your legal position, you may give up more than necessary. If you drive too hard a bargain, you may cause the other party to walk away from negotiations.<\/p>\r\n<p>Before starting mediation, it&#8217;s helpful to be familiar with your state&#8217;s laws on&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/divorce\/divorce-property-division-faq.html\">marital property<\/a>. Also, learn how child support is calculated and if you may be eligible for alimony or spousal support. An attorney can educate you on these matters and what you can expect from your divorce settlement.<\/p>\r\n<p>An attorney can also assist you in the following ways:<\/p>\r\n<ul>\r\n<li>Explain the divorce mediation process, rules, and procedures<\/li>\r\n<li>Help select the best mediator for your case (if the court doesn&#8217;t choose the mediator)<\/li>\r\n<li>Prepare you for mediation<\/li>\r\n<li>Help you decide potential settlements<\/li>\r\n<li>Review a proposed settlement for missing details or other potential issues<\/li>\r\n<li>Prepare formal divorce paperwork if you reach a mediated settlement<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n<p>Be sure to have an attorney review the memorandum of understanding hammered out in mediation sessions before you sign it. They can check the document to make sure your rights are protected. Your attorney can formalize the memorandum into a marital settlement agreement.<\/p>\r\n<h2>How To Select a Divorce Mediation Lawyer<\/h2>\r\n<p>When choosing a mediation legal adviser, look for the same things you would when selecting any other type of professional: evidence of training and relevant experience.<\/p>\r\n<p>Most&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/divorce.html\">divorce attorneys<\/a>&nbsp;know about mediation and have experience working as mediation advisers. In many states, lawyers can get certifications in specialty areas. Consider hiring a legal adviser who has been board certified in family law.<\/p>\r\n<p>While you will pay for these services, the attorneys&#8217; fees and the cost of mediation will be less than going through a traditional litigated divorce.<\/p>\r\n<h2>Related Resources<\/h2>\r\n<ul>\r\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/divorce\/divorce-mediation-overview.html\">Divorce Mediation &#8211; Overview<\/a><\/li>\r\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/divorce\/divorce-mediation-faq.html\">Divorce Mediation FAQ<\/a><\/li>\r\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/divorce\/collaborative-family-law-overview.html\">Collaborative Divorce<\/a><\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n<h2>Questions About Divorce Mediation? Talk to an Attorney<\/h2>\r\n<p>It can be valuable to have legal advice when mediating a divorce case. An attorney will ensure that you know your rights and can negotiate from a well-informed position. Contact a local&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/lawyers.findlaw.com\/divorce\/?fli=dcta\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">divorce attorney<\/a>&nbsp;to help you achieve the best possible mediation outcome. A mediator cannot give you legal advice. Only an attorney can. 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