{"id":351879,"date":"2026-07-08T08:44:42","date_gmt":"2026-07-08T13:44:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/content.findlaw-admin.com\/ability-law\/family\/living-together\/unmarried-partners-medical-directives-and-the-durable-power-of.html"},"modified":"2026-07-14T11:24:00","modified_gmt":"2026-07-14T16:24:00","slug":"unmarried-partners-medical-directives-and-the-durable-power-of","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/living-together\/unmarried-partners-medical-directives-and-the-durable-power-of.html","title":{"rendered":"Unmarried Partners: Medical Directives and the Durable Power of Attorney for Finances"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 fl-sectionWithSidebar fl-container fl-flex fl-flex-wrap fl-gap30\">\n<div class=\"fl-page-articles fl-section-main fl-section-main-full-width\"><h1 class=\"fl-no-margin-top\">Unmarried Partners: Medical Directives and the Durable Power of Attorney for Finances<\/h1>\n\n<section class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline\">\n    <div class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline-content\">\n                    By <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/company\/our-team\/jade-yeban-j-d\/\">Jade Yeban, Esq.<\/a> | Legally reviewed by <a\n                href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/company\/our-team\/aisha-success-esq\/\">Aisha Success, Esq.<\/a>\n                | Last updated\n        <time>\n                            July 14, 2026\n                    <\/time>\n    <\/div>\n\n    \n    <details class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline-toggle fl-gutenberg-byline-legally-reviewed\">\n        <summary>\n            <i class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline-icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i>\n            Legally Reviewed\n        <\/summary>\n\n        <div class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline-toggle-content\">\n            <p><em>This article has been written and reviewed for legal accuracy, clarity, and style by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/company\/our-team.html\">FindLaw\u2019s team of legal writers and attorneys<\/a> and in accordance with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/company\/company-history\/editorial-policy.html\">our editorial standards<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n    <\/details>\n\n    <details class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline-toggle fl-gutenberg-byline-fast-checked\">\n        <summary>\n            <i class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline-icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i>\n            Fact-Checked\n        <\/summary>\n\n        <div class=\"fl-gutenberg-byline-toggle-content\">\n            <p><em>The last updated date refers to the last time this article was reviewed by FindLaw or one of our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/company\/our-team\/contributing-authors.html\">contributing authors<\/a>. We make every effort to keep our articles updated. For information regarding a specific legal issue affecting you, please <a href=\"https:\/\/lawyers.findlaw.com\/?fli=bylinelink\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">contact an attorney in your area<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n    <\/details>\n<\/section>\n\n\n<div class=\"fl-key-takeaways fl-mb30\" data-testid=\"fl-key-takeaways\">\n    <div class=\"fl-card-content\">\n        <div class=\"fl-card-body fl-card-bg-teal fl-flex fl-flex-column\">\n                            <h2 class=\"fl-card-title fl-h2 fl-no-margin\">Key Takeaways<\/h2>\n                        <p>Unmarried couples are often excluded for making financial or emergency medical decisions for each other. Medical directives and durable powers of attorney for finances help unmarried couples establish their wishes. They can name a representative in these documents to make decisions in case of an emergency or similar situation.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div>\n<p>It is easy to become seriously injured or be otherwise unable to make important decisions. Many partners want to make sure their partner has a say in their affairs. So your partner can make choices for you, you need to create at least two things:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>A medical\/healthcare directive (which consists of a healthcare declaration and a durable power of attorney)<\/li>\n<li>A durable power of attorney for finances<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t create these documents to empower\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/domestic-partnerships\/what-is-a-domestic-partnership.html\">your partner<\/a>, your biological relatives will largely make these decisions. They may or may not respect your partner&#8217;s input.<\/p>\n<p>In the world of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/living-together\/wills-and-durable-power-of-attorney-for-health-care.html\">healthcare decisions<\/a> and legal issues, it&#8217;s important to understand the role of these legal documents. Especially for unmarried partners, it&#8217;s essential to have these documents to ensure others respect your wishes.<\/p>\n<p>This article covers the legal implications of unmarried partners, medical directives, and the durable power of attorney. You can also talk to an <a href=\"https:\/\/lawyers.findlaw.com\/estate-planning\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">estate planning attorney<\/a> near you for legal advice tailored to your relationship and state laws.<\/p>\n<h2>What Does a Medical Directive Do?<\/h2>\n<p>A\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/estate\/living-will\/health-care-directives-is-there-a-duty-to-follow-them.html\">medical directive<\/a>\u00a0is a document that outlines the types of medical treatment you wish to receive if you become unable to make your own healthcare decisions. This could be due to illness, injury, or any situation that leaves you incapacitated and in need of medical care. Different states have different state laws about these documents. A notary might need to make the documents official.<\/p>\n<p>Medical directives are particularly important for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/living-together\/cohabitation-background-and-trends.html\">unmarried couples<\/a>. While most states list biological family members and spouses as potential decision-makers, they do not generally list unmarried partners. Even if a state does list unmarried partners as potential decision-makers, they are usually given lower priority than married spouses and biological family members.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, even if your state does recognize unmarried partners, if you are injured in another state, that state may not recognize your partner&#8217;s rights.<\/p>\n<h2>Medical Directives: The Healthcare Declaration<\/h2>\n<p>One type of medical directive is a healthcare declaration, also known as a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/estate\/living-will\/living-wills-introduction.html\">living will<\/a>. This document details the type of life-sustaining treatment and life support you want if you&#8217;re unable to communicate. This written statement sets out how you should be cared for in an emergency or if you are otherwise incapacitated.<\/p>\n<p>Your healthcare declaration will set forth your wishes on topics such as:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Resuscitation<\/li>\n<li>Desired quality of life<\/li>\n<li>End-of-life treatments<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This includes treatments you don&#8217;t<i>\u00a0<\/i>want to receive. This document is primarily between you and your doctor. It advises them on how to approach your treatment. This could include decisions about long-term care, such as whether to stay in a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/elder\/elder-care-law\/nursing-home-law-basics.html\">nursing home<\/a>. It could also include whether you want treatments like feeding tubes, ventilators, or resuscitation.<\/p>\n<h2>Unmarried Partners: Medical Directives and the Durable Power of Attorney for Healthcare<\/h2>\n<p>For unmarried partners, it&#8217;s crucial to discuss and plan for healthcare decisions together. If one partner becomes unable to make decisions, the other may not have legal rights to make decisions for them unless there&#8217;s a document called a durable power of attorney for healthcare. The\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/estate\/living-will\/the-power-of-attorney-living-will-and-your-healthcare.html\">durable power of attorney for healthcare<\/a>\u00a0is given to the person you want to make medical decisions for you in an emergency. This gives one partner the authority to make healthcare decisions for the other.<\/p>\n<p>Even though you set out your wishes in your healthcare declaration, such documents can never cover every circumstance. The person who has a durable power of attorney for healthcare is the person who makes decisions not covered by your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/estate\/living-will.html\">healthcare directive<\/a>. Keep in mind that a person with a durable power of attorney for healthcare can never contradict the terms of your healthcare declaration.<\/p>\n<p>Depending on your state, the person that you grant a durable power of attorney for healthcare will typically be called your &#8220;agent,&#8221; &#8220;proxy,&#8221; or &#8220;attorney-in-fact.&#8221; The typical rights for this person include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Providing medical decisions for medical treatments that aren&#8217;t covered in your healthcare declaration<\/li>\n<li>Making decisions about health insurance and choosing healthcare providers<\/li>\n<li>Enforcing your healthcare wishes in court if necessary<\/li>\n<li>Hiring and firing the doctors and medical workers seeing to your treatment<\/li>\n<li>Having access to medical records<\/li>\n<li>Having visitation rights in a healthcare facility<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Some states, like Georgia, combine the healthcare declaration and the durable power of attorney for healthcare into one document. This document is called an &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/elder\/what-is-elder-law\/what-are-advance-directives-.html\">advance healthcare directive<\/a>.&#8221;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Need local legal help with your estate planning? <a href=\"https:\/\/lawyers.findlaw.com\/estate-planning\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Find an attorney near you.<\/a><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>Unmarried Partners and the Durable Power of Attorney for Finances<\/h2>\n<p>The\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/elder\/elder-care-law\/power-of-attorney-for-financial-matters.html\">durable power of attorney for finances<\/a>\u00a0works similarly to the durable power of attorney for healthcare. It allows whomever you designate the ability to make financial decisions on your behalf. With a durable power of attorney for finances, the person you designate will have the ability to make financial decisions for you if you&#8217;re incapacitated.<\/p>\n<p>Just as with healthcare, if you want your partner to have a say, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/estate\/financial-power-of-attorney\/do-i-need-a-lawyer-to-write-a-durable-power-of-attorney.html\">you must put it in writing<\/a>. Most states will only recognize biological relatives and married spouses. If you don&#8217;t expressly grant your partner a durable power of attorney for finances, they will have no legal say in your financial matters.<\/p>\n<p>It is also worth noting that there are two basic forms of a durable power of attorney for finances. These are usually called either &#8220;springing&#8221; or &#8220;immediate&#8221; powers of attorney. A springing durable power of attorney for finances would become effective when you become incapacitated, but not before.<\/p>\n<p>A springing durable power of attorney for finances makes sense in many situations. But for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/living-together\/cohabitation-do-s-and-don-ts.html\">unmarried couples<\/a>, it may not. If you make the durable power of attorney for finances immediate, then your partner can make financial decisions for you at any point. This gives them the same rights as a married spouse.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, here are some of the rights and responsibilities that whoever you grant a durable power of attorney for finances will have to make:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Paying your bills<\/li>\n<li>Paying your taxes<\/li>\n<li>Conducting your bank transactions<\/li>\n<li>Managing and investing your money<\/li>\n<li>Purchasing insurance for you, including health insurance and Medicaid<\/li>\n<li>Buying, selling, and managing any of your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/living-together\/unmarried-couples-and-property-basics.html\">real estate property<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Operating your business<\/li>\n<li>Collecting your government benefits and inheritance<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Essentially, this document gives your partner the ability to make financial decisions if you&#8217;re unable to do so. You can also choose adult children, close friends, or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/family\/guardianship\/guardianship-basics.html\">conservatorship<\/a> to handle these matters if you prefer.<\/p>\n<h2>Questions About the Rights of Unmarried Partners? Get Legal Help<\/h2>\n<p>With the diversity of relationship structures comes a variety of legal rights and obligations that can apply unevenly. For unmarried couples, the lack of certain marital rights could significantly impact them. This is especially true if their partner becomes seriously ill or incapacitated. Hopefully, that will never happen, but it&#8217;s always better to be prepared.<\/p>\n<p>The importance of these documents in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/estate\/planning-an-estate\/what-is-estate-planning.html\">estate planning<\/a> cannot be overstated. A written statement can provide clear guidance and peace of mind for you and your partner. For unmarried partners, these documents are particularly important as they can help avoid potential misunderstandings. If you have more questions, contacting an attorney for professional legal advice is a good idea.<\/p>\n<p>Take your first steps today by speaking with an experienced\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/lawyers.findlaw.com\/family-law\/?fli=dcta\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">family law attorney<\/a> near you. FindLaw\u2019s directory of\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/lawyers.findlaw.com\/family-law\/?fli=dcta\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">family law attorneys<\/a> can get you started. Enter your city or ZIP code for a list of qualified legal professionals near you.<\/p>\n<p>Because your state\u2019s estate planning laws are relevant, your attorney should be licensed in your state. 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