What Is Mediation?

Mediation is a legal process through which opposing parties can resolve conflicts without going to court. It is one method of alternative dispute resolution (ADR) where a neutral person guides opposing parties to a resolution. It is an alternative to resolving a legal dispute through a trial or court case.

Unlike arbitration, a type of ADR similar to a trial, mediation doesn't involve decision-making by a neutral third party. Mediators are often lawyers, but also include professionals who've gone through mediation training or a mediation program.

This FindLaw article explores different aspects of mediation.

Understanding the Mediation Process

The mediation process is generally more prompt, inexpensive, and procedurally simple than formal litigation. Mediation allows the parties to focus on the underlying circumstances that contributed to the dispute instead of on narrow legal issues. If the parties reach an agreement, the case resolves itself prior to the hearing or trial, reducing legal fees and time spent in court.

Mediation Overview

When parties seem unwilling or unable to resolve a dispute, one good option is to turn to mediation. Mediation as a process is generally:

  • Short-term

  • Structured

  • Task-oriented

  • "Hands-on"

  • Confidential

  • Less expensive than a trial

Joint Session

In mediation, the disputing parties work with a neutral third party, the mediator, to resolve their disputes. Mediation is a flexible dispute resolution process. The mediator facilitates conflict resolution by supervising the exchange of information and the bargaining process. This generally begins with a joint session.

Role of the Mediator

A mediator helps the parties find common ground and deals with unrealistic expectations. The mediator might also offer creative solutions and assist in drafting a final settlement. The role of the mediator is to:

  • Interpret concerns

  • Relay information between the parties

  • Frame issues

  • Define the problems

  • Control the process in a way that lets each party express their view in a civil manner

  • Finalize terms of an agreement

When is Mediation Appropriate?

Mediation is appropriate for resolving a dispute when a relationship is strained but needs to continue. It is most often reserved for civil cases. Mediation is usually a voluntary process, although sometimes statutes, rules, or court orders may require participation in mediation. This depends on your jurisdiction and the subject matter of your dispute. 

Although parties may be ordered to attend a mediation session, any settlement agreement is voluntary. Mediation is common in:

Mediation in Family Law

Family law matters such as child support, spousal support, and child custody often receive referrals for mediation. Divorce mediation is also common in local courts. Mediation over domestic violence or the status of protection orders is less common as there may be an imbalance in power between the parties. In some states, you can use court mediation programs that are free versus using a private mediator.

Unlike the litigation process, where a neutral third party like a judge imposes a decision, the parties and their mediator ordinarily control the mediation process. The parties and the mediator decide:

  • When and where the mediation takes place

  • The number of sessions

  • Who will be present

  • How the mediation will be paid for

  • How the mediator will interact with the parties

Post-Mediation

If the parties reach a resolution, the mediator may craft a mediation agreement. Mediation agreements may be oral or written, and content varies with the type of mediation. Whether a mediation agreement is binding depends on your state laws.

Most mediation agreements are considered enforceable contracts if they are written and signed by the parties. In some court-ordered mediations, the written agreement may be adopted as a court judgment. Parties may express more satisfaction with a mediated agreement. They may be more likely to follow its terms.

Settlement Conference

If an agreement is not reached, the parties may pursue their claims in other forums or proceed to a settlement conference. However, what's said in mediation remains confidential. Parties cannot use mediation statements and proposals at a contested hearing or trial.

Get Legal Help

Do you have a legal dispute that could be resolved by mediation? Seeking legal advice from a lawyer can help you understand your options and how to protect your legal rights. You can learn more about how mediation works, what mediation costs, and how to obtain mediation services. Visit our attorney directory to find a lawyer near you who can help.

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  • You're not required to have a lawyer for arbitration or mediation
  • A lawyer can help prepare and present your case for the best possible outcome

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