Checklist: Who Gets Custody?

Who was usually or most often responsible for performing the following childcare responsibilities?

Feeding infant

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Feeding younger children

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Changing diapers

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Holding/cuddling

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Preparing meals

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Packing lunches

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Grocery shopping

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Changing diapers

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Dressing

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Doing laundry

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Buying clothing

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Maintaining clothing

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Bathing

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Washing hair

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Styling hair

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Brushing teeth (help with or enforce)

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Putting to bed

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Reading stories, books

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Helping with homework

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Taking to/picking up from school

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Taking to/picking up from extracurricular activities

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Conferencing with teachers

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Attending school open houses

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School volunteering

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Choosing schools

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Helping choose classes

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Attending PTA/PTO meetings

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Taking to/picking up from religious services

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Taking to/picking up from religious classes

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Taking to/picking up from sports activities

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Coaching sports teams

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Taking to/picking up from lessons

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Taking to/picking up from play dates

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Arranging play dates

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Hosting play dates

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Taking to/picking up from birthday parties

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Hosting birthday parties

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Shopping for gifts for friends

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Shopping for gifts for child

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Shopping for school supplies

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Shopping for toiletries

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Taking to doctor

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Taking to dentist

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Taking to orthodontist

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Making doctor/dentist appointments

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Taking care of sick child

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Hiring babysitters

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Picking up/dropping off babysitter

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Arranging daycare

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Taking to/picking up from daycare

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Planning holidays

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Planning vacations

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Teaching values

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Teaching manners

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Monitoring chores

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Teaching sex education

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Taking to park

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Playing with indoors

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Playing with outdoors

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Cleaning home

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Maintaining home

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