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Parental Rights: Unmarried Fathers and Adoption

One of the biggest parental rights is the right to consent or object to the adoption of one's child. Generally, adoption requires the consent of both parents, provided they meet certain requirements. To gain parental rights, including the right to object to adoption, biological fathers unmarried to the mother must not only establish paternity, but also demonstrate a commitment to parenting the child.

The following provides an overview of the parental rights associated with unmarried fathers and adoption.

Acknowledging Paternity

Proactively establishing paternity is an important step in committing to help raise a child. Paternity determinations are sometimes voluntary, but typically take the form of civil lawsuits which utilize DNA testing to establish the identity of the child's father.

A biological father wanting a say in adoption decisions should establish paternity as soon as possible. Failure to establish paternity can prevent a single father from gaining any parental rights at all. Waiting too long can demonstrate a lack of commitment to parent the child. This can even mean needing to establish paternity before the birth of the child in certain cases, such as when the mother indicates early on in pregnancy a desire to put the child up for adoption.

Keep in mind, however, that paternity laws differ by state.

Timing and Unaware Fathers

Fathers who don't know of their children until after the fact can find themselves out of luck in regards to adoption decisions. In some states, the clock on when a father should acknowledge paternity and start providing for the child begins running when the child is born (or even during pregnancy), not when the father learns about the child. Courts have held that fathers unaware of their child may not later object to the child's adoption, particularly when the father's lack of knowledge was his own fault.

The facts of each case will differ, but to give himself the best chance of guaranteed input in adoption decisions, an unmarried father should not wait to learn about potential children. Instead, he should proactively seek out knowledge of any children he may have fathered and take all steps possible to establish a parental role.

Unmarried Fathers and Adoption: Commitment to Parenting

Beyond acknowledging paternity, unwed dads must meet a larger requirement demonstrated commitment to parenting in order to gain constitutionally protected paternal rights. This means providing for the child's material and emotional needs, and attempting to form the fullest possible parental relationship with the child.

Establishing a committed parental role typically includes helping pay pregnancy expenses, birth expenses and child support expenses after delivery. Some courts consider the fitness of the father to parent when determining his commitment to parenting. Fathers who don't provide support during pregnancy and beyond, who can't show the ability to provide support, or who have demonstrated drug or alcohol problems can be denied the right to object to adoption.

The degree to which an unmarried father has the opportunity to play a parental role in the Child's life often varies. However, doing everything he can to form a parental relationship, making himself as available as possible, and seeking legal recognition as soon as possible helps a father best position himself to maintain a say in adoption and other parental decisions.

Objecting to Adoption

Depending on state law, fathers who don't consent to the adoption of their child should file an objection to the adoption in the appropriate court, or in some cases with the state health and human services department. Often, an objection to adoption must include an indication of intent to petition for custody of the child in a short period of time, 30 days, for example.

What Are Your Rights as an Unmarried Father? A Lawyer Can Help

The biological requirements of fatherhood are quite simple, especially when compared to the obligations and demands of motherhood. This also means a father's rights with respect to his children are not as clear as those of the mother. If you have any questions about being an unmarried father and adoption, or need legal representation, consider calling a local family law attorney.

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