When Can You Sue a Business for Discrimination Based on Sexual Orientation or Gender Identity?
By Lark Lewis, J.D. | Legally reviewed by Bridget Molitor, J.D. | Last reviewed January 21, 2025
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Sexual orientation or gender identity discrimination in a place of business can show up as denial of services, derogatory comments, or refusal of access to facilities aligning with gender identity. Federal law protects the LGBTQ+ community against employment discrimination. But, protections in consumer settings depend on state and laws, with only some states offering explicit safeguards.
This article discusses legal and non-legal options if you’ve experienced discrimination as a consumer based on your sexual orientation or gender identity. It also explains how state and federal laws impact how you may seek justice, file a complaint, or pursue legal action.
For more information and resources, visit FindLaw’s LGBTQ+ Legal Resource Hub.
Defining Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity Discrimination
Sexual orientation is your identity in relation to the gender or genders to which you're sexually attracted. Sexual orientation discrimination occurs, then, when you're treated differently from others based solely on your real or perceived sexual orientation.
Gender identity, or gender expression, is the gender you identify with. This can be different from the gender you were assigned at birth. Gender identity discrimination occurs when you're treated unfairly because of your gender identity.
Scenarios Involving Discrimination Against Consumers
Below are just a few hypothetical scenarios that suggest you might be experiencing gender identity or sexual orientation discrimination:
- You're a male-presenting person and you're refused service at a restaurant after your server notices you're wearing pink nail polish.
- You're a lesbian who's shopping while wearing a suit and tie. A store associate approaches you and says, "We don't want people like you in our store."
- You're a transgender woman attempting to use the women's restroom at a gas station and the gas station attendant asks to see identification proving your gender before allowing you access to the restroom.
- You're a transgender woman at a fitness facility who is not permitted to use locker rooms that correspond with your gender.
Is There Protection for Consumers Under Federal Law?
Unfortunately, there aren't any existing federal laws that directly protect LGBTQ+ patrons or consumers in the above scenarios. Federal laws prohibit businesses from refusing service on the basis of race, color, religion, disability, or national origin. Federal laws also protect members of the LGBTQ+ community from employment discrimination. None of these laws, however, provide protection in other contexts.
A bill known as the Customer Non-Discrimination Act would offer greater protections and prohibit discrimination based on gender identity and sexual orientation in public spaces. The bill would prohibit discrimination in public accommodations, retail stores, and banks, among other places.
In the meantime, your legal recourse for discrimination based on gender identity or sexual orientation depends on your state's laws.
Is There Protection for Consumers Under State or Local Laws?
Some states have LGBTQ+-inclusive non-discrimination laws and regulations that cover public accommodations. Unfortunately, only slightly less than half of states and the District of Columbia offer such protections.
If you live in a state that with laws or regulations prohibiting discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity in public spaces, your best course of action is to reach out to an LGBTQ+-friendly attorney who can evaluate your case and provide you with options.
Keep in mind that many non-discrimination laws only provide injunctive relief. That means a business might be stopped from engaging in discriminatory practices in the future, but you won't necessarily be awarded any money for the discrimination you experienced.
Some cities, like New York City, have human rights statutes that prohibit discrimination against LGBTQ+ people. These cities are few and far between, however.
If you don't live in a state or city with LGBTQ+-inclusive non-discrimination laws, you have limited legal options. But that doesn't mean you can't effect change.
Can I Sue a Restaurant or Store for Discrimination Based on Gender Identity or Sexual Orientation?
If you have experienced discrimination based on your gender identity or sexual orientation at a restaurant or store, you may be able to sue under state or local laws that prohibit such discrimination. Discrimination based on gender identity or sexual orientation is illegal in some jurisdictions, but not all. You’ll first need to determine the laws in the area of the business.
A local attorney can explain your legal options under state and local laws. They can determine if filing a lawsuit is the best way to protect your rights and guide you through the process.
If you’ve experienced this form of discrimination from a restaurant or store, it is essential that you document the incident thoroughly. Keep a record of what you experienced, including:
- Date, time, and location
- Details of the discriminatory conduct
- Parties involved
- Any other important details
This information will help you later, whether you file a lawsuit or pursue non-legal options.
Non-Legal Options for LGBTQ+ Consumers
If you don't live in a state that prohibits sexual orientation or gender identity discrimination in private businesses operating in public spaces, or if you don't want to deal with the legal system, that doesn't mean you don't have options.
If you’ve been subjected to potentially discriminatory treatment as a patron of a business, you can raise the issue with the manager or owner of the business. If your complaint isn't taken seriously, you can take steps to raise awareness around your experience. Sometimes a social media post or article in your local newspaper can effect change. Most business owners don't want negative publicity and will take corrective action to avoid the potential loss of customers.
If you're more interested in creating change across the board, you can run for local office. You don't have to have a background in politics or law to run for office, and you might be surprised by how much of a difference your voice makes in establishing policies and laws that are more inclusive of the LGBTQ+ community.
Workplace Discrimination Based on LGBTQ+ Status
Federal anti-discrimination laws protect gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people from discriminatory employment decisions. In Bostock v. Clayton County, the U.S. Supreme Court ruled that the prohibition against sex discrimination in Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 barred private employers from discriminating against employees not only on the basis of sex, but also on the basis of an employee's sexual orientation and gender identity.
Under the Supreme Court decision, the federal government protects transgender people from workplace discrimination. Federal rights do not depend on heterosexuality. Employers are responsible for providing fair employment terms to job applicants and employees, and generally to prohibit hostile work environments.
What To Do If You Have Been Discriminated Against in the Workplace Due to Your LGBTQ+ Status
Perhaps your employer refuses to address you by your pronouns and expects you to abide by a company dress code that bars you from dressing in accordance with your gender identity. Perhaps you are subjected to sexual harassment by a supervisor. You don't have to tolerate this.
If you believe you have been discriminated against in the workplace based on your LGBTQ+ status, your first step is to file a charge of discrimination with the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission. That's EEOC Form 5.
The Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) is the federal agency responsible for handling workplace discrimination claims. The EEOC will investigate your complaint of discrimination and notify you of their conclusions within 180 days. If the EEOC chooses not to sue on your behalf, you can then bring a lawsuit against your employer under Title VII in the federal courts.
Know Your Rights: Get Legal Help With Your LGBTQ+ Issue
If you have specific questions about whether you've experienced actionable sexual orientation or gender identity discrimination as a patron of a business or in the workplace, reach out to a local civil rights attorney for legal advice about your case.
Your attorney can determine if your treatment was illegal under federal, state, and local discrimination laws. They will explain your legal options, advocate for your rights, and help you take legal action if appropriate.
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