Open or Closed Adoption: Advantages of Each Type of Adoption
By Danielle Gilmore, J.D. | Legally reviewed by Rhonda Earhart, Esq. | Last reviewed July 19, 2023
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Adoption, in and of itself, is a complicated and confusing process. You have many decisions to make. Will you go through an adoption agency or pursue it independently? What is your adoption plan?
Adding to the complexity, there are several different types of adoption. Open adoptions and closed (or confidential) adoptions are at either end of the spectrum. But mediated or "semi-open" adoptions also are an option. The main difference between open and closed adoptions is the type of adoption relationship between the birth and adoptive families. The type of adoption you choose will depend on your state's adoption laws, your needs, the birth mother's needs, and other factors.
Read on to learn about the pros of open adoption, the benefits of confidential (closed) adoptions, as well as the disadvantages of each type.
The Main Types of Adoption
To decide whether an open or closed adoption or some other form of adoption is the best method for you, you'll want to understand the levels of openness in the adoption process. These are common adoption types:
Confidential (Closed) Adoption
In a closed adoption, there is no contact between the birth parents and adoptive families. A third party (an adoption counselor, social worker, or attorney) provides non-identifying information only. This includes demographic information, such as height and hair color. It also includes medical information, such as medical history and medical records. However, the adoptee does not have access to family history and personal background information.
Mediated (Semi-Open) Adoption
The amount of contact is greater than in confidential adoption but less than in fully open adoption. The social worker or counselor acts as a go-between between the birth parents and the adoptive parents and the child by exchanging information back and forth. The parties do not exchange contact information.
Fully Open Adoption
This adoption type includes direct interaction between birth and adoptive families. They can exchange phone calls, texts, letters, and social media information. There is a straightforward connection between the biological family and the adoptive family. The adoptive parents may even be present during the child's birth.
Open Adoption, Closed Adoption, and Mediated Adoption: Advantages of Each
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The Cons of Closed Adoption
- Rarity: One of the biggest disadvantages is that closed adoptions are rare. This limits the number of people to choose from. If you're the biological parents, it's more difficult to find suitable parents who want to adopt under these circumstances. If you're an expectant mother, you may not have a choice in picking your child's adoptive family.
- Uncertainty: As a birth mom, you will probably worry about your child. You don't get any information about how your child is doing. Your curiosity is not satisfied through this arrangement. There is also a lot of uncertainty for the adopted child. They will likely wonder where they came from because they don't know their family history. They may experience problems with their self-esteem. This can lead to lots of questions with no resolution until they are older. Even then, they may not get the answers that they seek.
The Cons of Open Adoption
Open adoptions do not have many negatives, especially for children. Fully open adoptions serve as a more complete part of the adoption story. This is probably why adoption professionals encourage open adoptions. However, every situation is unique. Here are the open adoption disadvantages:
- Adoptees: They may feel torn between the parent groups or confused by the arrangement. The presence of their birth family might make it more difficult to relate to their adoptive family.
- Adoptive parents: The parents might feel pressure to provide updates to the birth parents. It might feel burdensome to them. They could also experience feelings of resentment toward the birth parents.
- Birth parents: They might feel let down by the interactions and feel that they are not enough. Birth parents may also feel pressure to go through with the adoption because the prospective parents have committed time and money.
Should You Pursue an Open or Closed Adoption? An Attorney Can Help
While it's ultimately a personal decision that will depend on your specific situation, a legal professional will be able to help you understand the benefits of open adoptions. They also can help you understand differences in the degrees of openness. They can also help you explore whether you prefer a closed adoption. Moving forward, consider speaking with an experienced adoption attorney near you to learn more.
Can I Solve This on My Own or Do I Need an Attorney?
- It is a good idea to have an attorney for complex adoptions
- An attorney can ensure you meet all legal requirements and that your adoption is finalized appropriately
- An attorney can help protect the best interests of adoptive children, adoptive families, and birth parents
- For simple adoptions, you may be able to do the paperwork on your own or by using an agency
Get tailored advice at any point in the adoption process. Many attorneys offer free consultations.
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