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Child Support Eligibility
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Key Takeaways
Parents have a legal duty to financially support their children. This includes adoptive and natural parents. The “custodial” parent, or parent the kids mainly live with, is typically the parent who receives the support money. Read on for critical information about what you must do to be eligible for child support.
Why Child Support Is Important
Both parents have a legal duty to provide financial support for their children. Typically, the parent who doesn’t have primary custody of the child makes child support payments to the “main” or custodial parent for their share of the child’s financial needs.
The court (using state child support guidelines) sets a child support amount to ensure your child has enough money for basic needs, such as:
- Food
- Clothes
- Housing
- Medical care, including health insurance
- Dental care
- Child care
- Other necessities
Depending on state law, a specific child support order remains active until the child turns 18 or 19. The child may also need to stay unmarried and still be in high school full-time or they will lose the support.
Also, the child support obligation ends if a child becomes emancipated. Under certain circumstances, the court may order you to continue paying child support after the child reaches adulthood.
>> Child support orders can help ensure that your child receives the care they need. If you need help determining your eligibility for child support, consider speaking with an experienced family law attorney. They can provide legal assistance with this and all of your family law issues.
Child Support Eligibility Requirements
It’s essential to understand the basic legal requirements that a parent or legal guardian must meet to receive child support payments from the other parent. In a typical child support situation, the “obligor,” or the parent who provides the support, is generally the non-custodial parent who doesn’t live with the child most of the time.
The obligor pays the custodial parent or the “obligee.” However, child support is not guaranteed. Specific conditions must apply.
To be eligible, you must have the following:
- Legal relationship
- Legal obligation
- Custody
“Legal Relationship” Defined for Child Support Cases
If you’re trying to get child support payments on behalf of a child, you must have a legal relationship with that child. Usually, this means the child’s biological parent. However, adoptive parents or legal guardians also meet this requirement.
“Legal Obligation” Defined for Child Support Cases
The individual you’re trying to obtain money from must be legally obligated to support the child. The child support obligation comes from either a court order or by agreement.
“Custody” Defined for Child Support Cases
The legal relationship connects to custody. To be eligible for support, you must have custody of your child. Generally, that means “sole primary custody,” but that’s not always true.
Establishing Paternity in Child Support Cases
When a child is born to a married couple, they are the presumptive parents. A husband is the presumptive or “putative” father, and he has paternity rights and obligations.
The court also establishes paternity with a paternity test. Either parent can seek a DNA test by petitioning the court.
How the Courts Figure Out Child Support Agreements
A child support agreement is a legal document establishing the terms of the child support payments. It is reached in two ways:
- By voluntary agreement with both parents
- Through a court order as part of a family law legal action (such as a divorce or paternity proceeding)
The contract may include the following:
- The parent responsible for the child support payments (the “obligor”)
- The amount of child support
- The timing of the child support payments
- The number of children to be supported
- The length of the agreement
- The methods of payment
- The requirements for modifying the agreement later (what to do if there’s a substantial change in one or both parents’ income)
- The kinds of expenses that the parent can use the child support for (medical expenses, educational expenses, health care, after-school activities)
Custodial Parents: Legal Definition in Child Support Cases
The court designates a “custodial” parent. This is done by court order in a family court proceeding, like a divorce or a child custody dispute. In a single-parent household, that parent is the custodial parent when the other parent has made no effort to seek custody.
While child support can vary from state to state, the parent receiving child support is usually the custodial parent. The custodial parent has primary physical custody of the child, where the parent lives with the child most of the time.
They are chiefly responsible for the child’s daily care (arranging daycare, taking them to school and social activities, etc.). Even if the other parent has liberal time with the child and “joint physical custody,” the court considers the parent with more time as the custodial parent.
Split Custody: Legal Definition in Child Support Cases
50/50 shared custody determinations are rare. Dividing the time parents spend with their children equally is difficult. In a joint custody situation where the child spends equal time living with each parent, the court considers both parents as custodial parents.
The court won’t order either parent to pay the other, especially if incomes are similar. The court may order one parent to pay child support to the other if there is a significant disparity in parental income.
The 45-second video below explains child support eligibility basics:
Video Transcript:
Social Security Questions To Ask About Child Support Eligibility
A custodial parent is not guaranteed to receive child support. You must address these issues first. Ask the following questions:
- Can the court secure payment of child support?
- Does the custodial parent know the whereabouts of the other parent?
- Do they have a home address and the name of an employer? A custodial parent should find out if they’re entitled to free assistance by locating the other birthparent from their state’s child support services agency.
- Is paternity legally established? If the parents were unmarried, a DNA paternity test may be required.
- Has the custodial parent received a child support order in family court? Until the parent has one, their state child support agency cannot help them enforce the order in most cases.
Child Support Services Agencies
Federal law sets up state child support programs. Child support agencies in your state are critical resources. Parents can complete preliminary tasks to get child support. For example, if you’re on public assistance, the child support agency will open a child support case for you.
If you don’t receive government benefits, need to open a child support case, or have an existing order, your state child support agency can still likely help. The organization can also give you referrals for other points of assistance.
The agencies’ child support programs can provide parent location assistance, child support collections, or child support enforcement services, including help receiving current support and support that is in arrears (past due).
Nonpayment of child support can result in severe sanctions, including:
- Mandatory income withholding
- Medical insurance coverage assignment
- Loss of professional licenses
- Loss of driver’s license
- Property liens
- Revocation of passport
- Take money from your state or federal tax refunds (referred to as “income tax intercept”)
General Considerations for Determining Child Support Eligibility
The court considers other factors for determining child support eligibility, including:
- The needs of the child
- The physical and emotional state of the child
- The income of both parents
- The financial condition of both parents
- The standard of living the child would have received if the parents had remained together
- The number of children and the ages of the children
- The custodial parent’s financial resources/needs
Can You File for Child Support Payments While Pregnant?
No. You can prepare the paperwork in advance, but you must wait to file until after you give birth.
It’s best to file a petition for child support as soon as your baby is born. If you are unmarried and the biological father does not sign an Acknowledgment of Paternity affidavit, you must file a paternity petition. Establishing legal paternity is the first step in securing a child support order.
Even if you start this process during your pregnancy with a non-invasive prenatal paternity test, a judge may order a postnatal DNA test after your child is born.
Next, a court will assess child support obligations as part of a paternity order.
While some lawmakers have proposed bills that would allow expectant mothers to receive child support before giving birth, these bills have failed to pass. Some states have also proposed legislation allowing mothers to retroactively seek child support to cover medical expenses and health care costs relating to their pregnancy and birth. These bill have also failed to be enacted into law.
>> It’s smart to research child support laws prior to childbirth. You may want to talk to a family law attorney for legal advice. An experienced attorney can provide specific guidance for your situation and state laws. They can help you open a child support case and recommend the best course of action.
Can You File for Child Support While Technically Still Married?
Yes, you can file for child support payments if you’re legally married. Regardless of marital status, parents have a legal duty to support and provide for their children. This means you can pursue a child support order if you and the other legal parent are living apart and they are not appropriately contributing to your child’s financial needs. This is true whether you are unmarried, married, divorced, or legally separated.
Child support is a separate legal matter from divorce or legal separation.
Contact your state’s child support services agency to start this process. They can open a child support case and help enforce and collect payments. But be aware that state agencies can get backed up, resulting in delays in processing your case.
You can also consult a family law attorney. An attorney can assess your situation and provide legal advice for your specific circumstances. Family law attorneys know how to effectively navigate the necessary legal channels, which can potentially expedite the child support process.
What Are the Application Requirements?
The child support requirements depend on the specific state. However, there is general information that you need to supply in most cases:
- Information about the child: Full name, date of birth, and Social Security number.
- Personal information: Your full name, date of birth, Social Security number, contact information, and the full name, date of birth, and Social Security number for the other parent.
- Financial information: Both parents’ income and other sources if they apply, including spousal support/alimony, workers’ compensation, lottery winnings, expenses, assets for both parents; and monthly costs for work-related child care, health insurance for the child, and ongoing medical expenses for the child, such as braces or mental health treatment.
- Documentation: Legal documents, including paternity order, birth certificate, divorce decree, custody order, and any other documents that impact your case.
Learn More About Your Child Support Eligibility: Talk to an Attorney
Getting informed about your eligibility to collect child support is key. While you learn about the law, you are also potentially losing money every day you wait to take action. Your rights and time with your children can also be affected by waiting too long to act.
Legal processes are unfortunately not smooth. While they follow rules, they are not a one-size-fits-all system with smooth pathways. The cost of waiting can be high. Child support often only tracks back to the file date, not the date of birth or the date parents separated. You could lose months of support by waiting.
State-funded help can also get backed up, unlike a privately funded local lawyer you select. Agencies can move slowly and rarely dig into issues or hidden assets, such as side jobs or tip money. A private attorney will dig deep for you and work quickly to bring the other parent to court within weeks.
Can I Solve This on My Own or Do I Need an Attorney?
- Some states allow you to set up child support with forms and court processes
- You may need legal help to set up or modify child support arrangements
- If there is conflict, an attorney can advise if the other parent’s actions are legal
Get tailored advice about paying or receiving child support. Many attorneys offer free consultations.
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Don’t Forget About Estate Planning
Once new child support arrangements are in place, it’s an ideal time to create or change your estate planning forms. Take the time to add new beneficiaries to your will and name a guardian for any minor children. Consider creating a financial power of attorney so your agent can pay bills and make sure your children are provided for. A health care directive explains your health care decisions and takes the decision-making burden off your children when they become adults.
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